What is the reasonable expectation for a friend's reaction to your self harm?

Everyone has their own opinions on why people self scar theirsel and the roots to them all is theirs a big issue in their life that needs some atintion now everyone copes with their problems diffrently you skiped ciggerrets drinking weed and every other drug and cut yourself when people do that that means they really dont like themselvs and you are @ risk for suicide she thinks your unstable nufit nothings in this world is that miserable girl wake up and look in the mirror god made everyone diffrent you are beautifull and im shure we come from two backgrounds when i say everybodys realitys diffent call you friend and confide in her you both need it